Care not for what your girlfriends think of your new outfit.  The question is, my darling, does the proverbial “he” think that you look good.  Do you want to attract more females or are you trying to catch a good man?  Yes, you want a man (unless you are a lesbian, and they are many times attracted by the same things that attract men…for obvious reasons…but I digress).  If you want a man…dress in a way that men find attractive.

Don’t know what men find attractive?  Buy a men’s magazine like Black Man, GQ, or Maxim.  Sure, the women may not be wearing a whole lot of clothes…but you will find “dressed” women in those publications.


  • Show off your curves with form fitting garments…but not TIGHT garments.  There is a difference.  Not a mu-mu, not latex…you know what I’m saying, Dear.
  • Cleavage is your friend.  Leave an extra button undone on that stiff work blouse.  Note: A hint can go a long way, but no one needs to see your nipples.
  • Wear heels, it’s worth the pain.  Does wonders for the look of you butt and calves.
  • Don’t walk out of the house without considering what you are wearing.  You can meet a man at the 7-11…really you might
  • Makeup is not just for a night on the town.  Eyeliner, mascara, and lip gloss…you should always have these 3 handy.  Even without foundation, they can transform your face

Those are just a few tips/hints.  More to come.


I believe that there are beautiful women, average women, and ugly women.  Who gets to judge?…men.  Who has to deal with it?…whether they like it or not, women.  This is the way of the world.  Personal preference rules.  That’s why advertisers work so hard.  They are working to change your mind.  The way you think, what you think, what you prefer, and what you will invest your hard earned money in.  Who will invest in you?  Who is willing to buy into what you are selling?

Ladies, if you don’t have a man, you are not working hard enough with your advertising.  Your product may have gotten too old.  The packaging may be ugly.  People may be taking your product for granted and assume that any brand name will do.  You don’t have time to sit on the shelf.  There is way too much competition, male and female, for a good man.

Are you bleach, are you peanut butter, are you a trash bag?

NO.  You are a woman.  You have assets, selling points.  You need to maximize, flaunt, and let the world know about what you are selling.  But, no…you let the world see how dirty the back storeroom is.  You let them see you cooking in a nasty fast food kitchen.  You have a hand made sign over your storefront.  You are not “doing it” girlfriend.

The time has come for women to wake up and stop crying about having or not having a man.  You don’t have a man because no one wants to buy what you are selling.  It’s time for RESEARCH and DEVELOPMENT 101, Ladies.

Let’s get it!